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A Word from the Vine No. 63: Overcoming the Pit - Helping Others Escape from Destructive Patterns

Welcome back to "A Word from the Vine." Today, I want to talk about how we can help those who are stuck in destructive patterns, even when they seem resistant to change. We've all been there, stuck in a pit, unable to climb out. It's a lonely and dark place to be, and it's easy to feel like there's no hope for us.


But the truth is, we can escape from the pit, and we can help others escape too. It starts with compassion. We need to see the pain and struggle of others, and approach them with empathy and love. It's easy to judge and criticize from the outside, but we don't know the battles others are fighting.


We also need to be patient. Change doesn't happen overnight, and it often takes multiple attempts before we finally break free from destructive patterns. We can't force others to change, but we can be there to support and encourage them along the way.


One example from the Bible is the story of the woman caught in adultery. The Pharisees wanted to stone her, but Jesus showed her compassion and forgiveness. He didn't condone her behavior, but he also didn't condemn her. Instead, he gave her a chance to start over and change her ways.


Another example is the story of the prodigal son. The father didn't try to force his son to stay home and behave, but he also didn't give up on him when he left and squandered his inheritance. When the son returned, the father welcomed him back with open arms.


These stories remind us that we are all capable of change, and that we need to extend grace and understanding to others as we navigate our own struggles.


So, if you know someone who is stuck in a pit, don't give up on them. Show them compassion, be patient, and be there to support them. It won't be easy, but it will be worth it. Together, we can overcome the pit and find the freedom and joy that comes with a life transformed by God's love.


Thank you for tuning in to "A Word from the Vine." Until next time, may God bless you and keep you. I'm Pastor Loren Christensen of Danish Countryside Chapel.

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